1. Make Your Mess Magnificent - The sure fire way to be abundant is to be authentic. Stop worrying about what other people think and just be you. The more mistakes you learn from the more you grow. Repeat after me. I am perfectly, imperfect! Sitting pretty and trying to be perfect won't get you very far. Be the best you, amidst the mess. That's how you Perfect Your Potential.
2. Be A Solo Artist - You can have it all but you can't be all to everyone. Take time to be by yourself. Be still to recharge, find peace & bring more of your inner beauty to the surface. Self-care is so important. When you take time for yourself it's a reflection of your self-worth. Beauty is not just vanity, it's valuing yourself.
3. The Beauty Of It All - The better you look, the better you feel, you better your chances of having it all. To think of beauty exclusively from a vanity prospective is an injustice. Beauty is involved in your daily tasks & is everywhere in the world around you. You must open your eyes & open your mind to experience it all. There are 7 strategies that I feel one must consistently implement to have a beautifully successful life from the inside/out.
4. Your Presence Is A Present - Do you see your value? Do you feel like you are a gift? Life is supposed to bring perpetual happiness. Enjoy yourself; surround yourself with others that seethe beauty within you. The better you treat yourself, the better you will find life treating you. When you show up at your best you make the world a better place.
5. Faking It Is Not Allowed - Stop pretending to be something you are not. Being sexy means telling the truth & being honest with others when it comes to things that aren't aligning with your core values. In order to discover your true-worth and break the cycle of self-sacrifice, follow your heart. Live on purpose & with immense passion.
6. Laugh Out Loud - Do you know laughing makes it easier for you to cope with different challenges in life. It improves and strengthens your immune system and helps prevent a number of diseases. Play, have fun, go to a comedy show or watch a funny movie. Make time to laugh out loud.
7. The Cool Chic - Hot headed is not a trait that will make the men come running. Remain calm, cool & collective no matter what. In the event you slip up and throw a temper tantrum take a deep breath, regain your composure & set a positive intention to realign your energy. Giving good vibrations will always make you magnetic!
8. Live To Give - What have you done for other's lately? Giving is one of the most beautiful gestures! Whenever I feel like my life is not moving smoothly. I immediately look around & see if I'm being selfish & blocking my gifts due to lack of sowing first; reaping comes second. It's great to receive but like my mentor Bobi said so eloquently "Live To Give". Get to moving & give. It's the quickest way to attract abundance into your life. Being of service is tres chic & very sexy.
9. A Heart of Platinum - Open your heart & let everyone in. Love should never discriminate. Also remember to practice self-love. To be loved and accepted, you must start by loving yourself. Whatever you don't like about yourself find a way to love it anyway. There's nothing sexier than a woman that fully embodies self-love.
10. Spice Up Your Spiritual Side - Spirituality is not about what you're doing; it's about who you're being. If you want more beauty, more love, more abundance & more sex (yes I said sex). I highly suggest you turn to God. Set aside time to be with the divine. Find a place of worship, pray & meditate to keep you aligned with God. He is our abundant source.
11. Let It Go - Freeing your mind allows you to make room for more beauty & abundance in your life. Let go of the past. Stop carrying your problems in your purse. Release anger & resentment regularly after allowing yourself to feel these emotions fully. If you want to throw a hissy fit, fine, but move on fast. Also you must be willing to let go of negative people, dream stealers & energy vampires. Saying good-bye to that which is no longer enriching your life is essential.
12. Be A Change Diva - It's time to change from the inside/out. Be open to new experiences, new looks & new ideas. Creativity is your birthright. Make it a habit to keep expanding your awareness and learning new things. If you are not growing you are not living. Women that are sexy have a knack for changing things up. They are not afraid to evolve which makes them drop-dead desirable.
13. Thanking Queen - A woman that knows how to be grateful is so sexy. Live with a glass half-full mentality. Practicing gratitude regularly is a powerful way to attract more abundance in your life. Look around & relish on the gifts of today. Focusing on what is good leads to the great. BTW...to make stunning advances you must learn to value your own life and your own gifts as much as you've been taught to value and nurture the lives of others.