How long has it been? I don't quite know.
What I do know is that I have been happier than I have ever been since joining this site. Sure I disappeared for awhile, but when that depression hit... well, it's pretty obvious what happened.
What can I really say other than how I owe my sanity, my preservation of identity, to such supporting communities like this.
In the beginning, I was confused and frustrated with myself. There was always some unattainable crush that I craved. There was always a girl that I wanted to be absorbed into. Gender identity was not something I ever really thought of. ...
I joined usbigirls.com months ago. I hoped, but didn't expect to meet a woman. Mostly, I wanted access to all the sexy posts only available to members. I was bold enough and confident enough to want more than a cursory look.
I loved the site: so many beautiful women. Again and again, they were always so far away from me. There were a few women geographically close, or emotionally close, but never a great fit. I became a bit disenchanted and detached from the whole online experience. I decided to just be perfunctory. I decided to check in when it...
Okay, as co-founder of UsBiGirls, I get a lot of questions about "finding a bisexual girl near me" from members. I am truly surprised by some of the expectations of members who live in rural areas, where the population is very low. I'm talking about places with a lot of open land, maybe farm land, or barren desert, where there are not a lot of inhabitants.
Why do people expect everything to be at their fingertips? Maybe it's the "microwave mentality" so pervasive in our society. I want it "hot and now". No effort, no waiting, no work. Why does anyone expect anything in life to be that way, mu...
Trying to write a good blog post can be intimidating. Here are some tips for breaking down the process and writing something your community will want to read.
Set a Goal
First, decide what you’re going to write about today. Make it specific. Who are you writing to? What do you want them to get out of your post?
It might be helpful to think about how you’ll know if you’ve accomplished your goal. What kind of comment from a reader would show you that you’ve succeeded?
Setting a goal helps keep you focussed and prevents you from trying to do too much with a single post.
Plan it Out
Now you ...
Dear Dr. Amanda,
Here's the situation-
I have never been with a woman, but I really want to lick and kiss, and suck on nipples, and play with breasts, but that's it (as far as I know). So far... what does that make me? curious? playful? silly? experimental? when I chat with women on dating sites, I do not know what to call myself when they ask. Dr. Amanda, what am I? I have been saying that I am straight and trying to make new friends. Truth: I have a hidden agenda ;)
Dear Curiously Questioning,
Thanks for such a great question and being so open about your...
Well, where do I start? It all started when I was a little girl.
First of all I come from a broken home and had to help my mother raise my brother. I never had my father in my life but that is ok with me because he is the one missing out. Anyways it all started when I was a little girl. I had this babysitter that was watching me one day and she asked to get in the bed with her and I was maybe 11 or younger.
Well then she started to fondle me and I asked her why she was doing that to me but she never said anything. So I got up and ran out of the room. I was scared and never told anyone about ...